Life is Beautiful….!

Some people have the habit of constant complain about everything happening around…This is not done…that is not completed…you are not like before….you have changed…its still pending…i don’t like that…this is not right…that is wrong…etc..etc…End less list. Their mind is always full of complaints about every thing else in world other than himself/herself. (Even i am not an exception to this….i am like the same.) If some expected job or activity goes beyond a limit due to some factors, they magnifies them and take their own decision about the event..with their perception.In fact, anything done well just doesn’t bother them.They forget the good things quickly, their emphasis is on Negative side of the life.( Once again me myself…) ONLY COMPLAINTS AND COMPLAINTS….and COMPLAINTS… Because of this attitude, they constantly remain under tension.this is because you can always make an endless list of lapses in any human performance since no human being is perfect.. Instead of constant bickering in irritation, you should bring about some changes in your attitude and response.First of all, learn to appreciate the good things around, and good things done by any person. Secondly, whenever you have to point out any shortcoming in a certain thing to a person, then point it out objectively, preferably in writing, if it is pertaining to the official work as if ..it is a natural thing and can be remedied.Do not become emotional about it…there should not be any personal grudge or ill will about that person. As i mentioned no one is perfect…after and all we are humans….as we know it..!!Humans are prone to error’s…..So to err is human ..to forgive is divine. So an attempt should be made to mend a person first by psychological means using behavioural skills. In case you have a complaint against some body, then only request instead of spoiling relations with he or she. Please..please remember that your purpose in this life is not to set various people right or to take revenge against bad people for their behaviour.   Please note that how so ever bad a person may be, but confrontation and quarrels are never the ways to cross through him. To Get irritated over non agreeable person and situations is not an act of bravery and greatness. Anybody can do it. This is where, we human beings differ from other living things in this world.Our greatness lies in rising above such mechanical behaviour by asserting control on ourselves. While trying to maintain these, we sometimes even should be ready to face insults and compromise with the misbehaviour of others in the larger interest of getting a good work done…or considering their happiness and interest…. because that some ones happiness is important for us, than a differentiating person’s behaviour. We should also learn to set the things right by ourselves, instead of only bothering as to whose fault it is and who should correct it….if you want to see the good in this world…then start that good from your side first. You take the lead….you create that mark….you lead the way… Start learning and implement the same in your daily life…

mmH